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Andy Rick


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Avoid Divorce


By Andy Rick at 2010-11-03 01:02:09
Marriage is a union of two people who have vowed to love and accept each other in a lifelong commitment. In most marriages, the beginning is called the "honeymoon phase" for a reason. The marriage is new and exciting, being together is enjoyable and stress-free. But, as time goes on, things can get rough and couples lash out at each other,
and perhaps even make them question why they wanted to be married in the first place!Start small. Start with words. Talk even if it seems to be one sided.

Tell a little story about something from the office, the kids, or about a story you read. Don't lecture and don't fight. Don't bring up old baggage. Just start to talk normally. Again, you are looking for ways to reconnect and in effect, start on a regime of new habits, small acts of kindness to the other person. You will feel better by doing something that is kind and not done from anger. And your spouse will feel better.

One thing you need to be careful about is the habit of trying to over compensate when something starts to fall apart. Women are more commonly the healers even when it is a relationship that needs healing.Sometimes women can try a little to hard and might seem a little needy.

Don't get me wrong men can be the same way.But coming off this way can push your husband farther away the more you cling. So when problems come up just talk to him calmly about them before they get big.Some time apart may be the prescription for your ailing marriage. If the two of you can have a sense of life without one another it may help you to appreciate each other that much more. Once this happens the marriage will have a stronger foundation and you'll both be committed to making it work.

This is just about the hardest thing for people to do. We adamantly refuse to accept and admit that we were wrong, even in the face of clear and undeniable proof of the contrary. Let's grow up.

Part of being an adult is being able to see when we are wrong.One of ways to improve your marriage is to ask your spouse to help you. That's right, it might be time to take a humble approach and explain what areas you are struggling with and are unhappy about.Pick and choose the specific people you speak to and make sure they have your best interest at heart.Preferably you'll want to talk to a woman who's been there before .She can give you valuable information you've never thought of before.Try to remember special day in your spouse's life and do something special for him/her. Throw parties, buy meaningful gifts; be creative.

One of the most interesting and special things about marriage is that each individual grows, and changes over time. The person you are with now, is probably different from the individual you married - and it's very likely that you, yourself, have changed as well.

Pick a new sport, hobby, social cause, or even jogging route and make it a point to do what you enjoy the first thing in the morning. This may mean that you have to wake up earlier than you usually do, or go to bed before anyone else does at night.

Even though most men seem rough and tough they aren't that much different than women. They also want to be loved and appreciated. It's a two way street and if you won't talk through your problems it won't be a problem much longer.It can really open yours and your spouses eyes to alternate possibilities while doing wonders for a marriage in trouble.

Love is a very complex emotion. So often we think of it as the transient but beautiful burst of passion that you feel when first 'falling in love'.Love is bigger than that passion and flare however, although it encompasses it.


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